Faith

Sometimes having faith is hard. The bible tells me that if I have faith the size of a mustard seed, I can move mountains! I can move mountains?

In my heart I KNOW I will be a mother and I know this is the month, its going to happen; but the devil sneaks in and reminds me of how devastating it could be to put all my faith in God that he will provide us with a baby and then come up with negative results. When life is calm it is much easier to move mountains. Your faith is complete and you have little to no doubt. What do you do when you can't escape your doubt?

Let's back up a couple weeks... When we found out we had another big fat negative month, we had a conversation about how far can we afford to go. IUI (artificial insemination) cost anywhere from $500.00-$900.00 and was our next step. We know that we want a baby at any cost, but when you look at your bank account its a little harder to put faith into a procedure that may or may not work. All of that doubt and worry ended on Monday night. 

I bowl in a women's league with my mom and aunt. I have bowled terribly this session! Every week the strike pot comes by me and I always say no, because I know I'm not that good of a bowler and it just never interested me. This Monday, however, I learned the strike pot was up to $300.00. I pulled three dollars out of my wallet and bought three tickets. I had three chances to win the strike pot. It's now time to draw the lucky number of the person who will go for the strike pot. In order to win you must bowl a strike on the spot. If  you do not bowl the strike the money carries over to next week. I get my tickets out and wait for the numbers to be called. "The winning ticket is #3040....." I look down and then back up to see if anyone around me had the winning ticket. No one is standing up, I look down at my tickets once more and I had the winning ticket!! How did I not see it?!? I jump up and let everyone in the joint know I had the winning ticket!

Now the reality sets in...I must bowl a strike right now to win this $300.00. I had been bowling great all night. I can do this! I grab my ball, pick a lane and give myself a pep talk of much we needed this money. I throw my ball down the lane and very quickly I know this is a good ball! It's still good, hits the pens and all fall but one.... I put my hands over my eyes and before I could turn around the pen falls over! I DID IT! I bowled the strike!

I know God doesn't pick sides in sports, I know he does not answer prayers of gambling wants, but I do know God knew I needed this push, this reassurance to go ahead and move forward with this procedure. For the first time in a long time I truly believe God spoke to me. I knew my ovulation would come this same week and God provided me with $300.00 we hadn't expected to have. The answer was simple and clear. Just jump. Spend the money and make the leap. 

So we did. Yesterday we went into our doctors office and I did the IUI procedure. I put all faith and hope into this decision. How blessed am I that I was given a monetary gift that meant more than most people understood. God will provide.

If anyone is out there reading this blog, I ask for your prayers. I am trying to stay strong and keep my faith but my imagination is running wild and I'm terrified. I have been given such an over powering message and somehow I'm still scared. I want God to know I do trust Him and I do have faith in Him but I'm scared. Can that go hand in hand?

I took a selfie as I laid on the table after the procedure and sent it to Brad with the caption "Just laying here making our baby"...I WILL have faith!

The wait is over

I tried really hard this month to stay positive, but in the back of my mind were my true raw emotions of failure. Again this month we were disappointed, but I am feeling something I haven't quite felt this entire time of TTC. I am ready to fight! I have been so careful about what I said or felt or thought. It's time to put up my dukes and let em fly! I will be a mother and Brad and I will be parents! To be continued...

The two week wait...

On September 17, I went to my fertility doctor to have an ultrasound of my ovaries to see if they had any healthy follicles. He first looked at my right ovary and noticed I had one follicle on that ovary and it looked to be healthy and it was at 22 mm. ( I think this is a good size but what do I really know?) He then looked at my left ovary and noticed I had a healthy follicle on that one as well and it was at 21 mm. He seemed a little shocked that I had two healthy follicles on both ovaries so of course I had to ask him what that meant. "Mrs. Jolly are you OK with having twins?" GULP!

Brad and I have ALWAYS joked about having twins and naming them Hunter and Fischer...well mostly Brad, those are not my names of choice but it has always been an inside joke for us. So as I am currently in my two week waiting period, all I can think about is the possibility of our little Hunter & Fischer. The doctor told me Brad and I more than likely would not need to have an IUI to have a baby. So we did not have that procedure this month. But should I have pushed the issue? What if this is our chance at our dream of twins and we miss it?

I can't seem to get my mind to stop racing! I think about our possibilities day and night and a week from today I should know where we stand this month. That also is a scary thought. Today I am hopefully but in just a few short days I could be crushed again. I have been reading daily devotionals trying to get myself in the right place with my relationship with God. It is helping. I have finally found myself talking to God again and having faith that we will become parents; but I still have that fear of failure...will that ever go away?